I have had several epiphanies lately. A couple of weeks ago, I had to drive to the mountains on a Friday to meet dear friends who were coming for the weekend. I was sick with a bad cold and my work was crazy busy. I didn’t want to miss seeing my friends, though, and my husband […]
Posts Tagged ‘fortytude’
The Strength of Accomplishment
Accomplishment is the fourth of the core values espoused by Sarah Brokaw in Fortytude. In her research, Sarah found the core values to be the “values most served to sustain and enhance women’s lives as they entered their fifth decades.” I have previously addressed grace/equanimity (Fortytude), connectedness (Girlfriends), and adventure (How Did That Happen). Sarah warns that […]
How Did That Happen??
I was a bit of a baby when I was a kid. I didn’t like to get far from my mama and I did not like to leave home. Camp was out of the question. I don’t think anyone would have called me adventuresome or a risk taker. I remember specific incidences of my unwillingness as […]
Girlfriends
I am not sure that there is much that is more pure than your first best friendship. I remember mine vividly. We were best friends from the age of about three until six, when my family moved. At that age, there was nothing but joy in the relationship – no competition and really no concerns […]
Fortytude
Several years ago, we were asked to take personality tests at our law firm. I was one of the most vocal protesters, complaining that it was a waste of time and silly. I guess I should not have been surprised that I scored very high as to cynicism. I became more aware of my cynicism and […]